update limit is three weeks. this can consist of anything. the only thing we ask is that if you make a special post (youtube, one liner, survey, etc.) you must post a real entry within three weeks. you may make other special posts between the two, but a real one needs to be posted by the time your update is due. these entries do not need to be extremely long, a few short paragraphs is just fine.
do not cross the ic/occ line. if you have any problems with this, please contact us about the problem. we can speak to the other person confidently without giving names and give them a warning, and if it happens again removal from the community. under certain circumstances if we feel it's necessary we do have the right to remove you without warning if we feel the situation calls for it.
pregnancies must be carried out for the full 9 months. keep in mind that divorces do not happen overnight. please try to keep things as realistic as possible. of course if your character is married and you prefer to play them unmarried you may also do that as long as you simply place an ooc note in either your friends only post or in a screened post stating this so other players will be aware of it.