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Right now, pending our court date, some entries are private or 'friends only'.. this would be one of them. I know she reads this, and I don't need any extra stress right now...
I'll post what she wrote, then I'll give my thoughts.
'Ok, well not sure where to start so I'll start with what I can remember *lol*
Friday late morning I decided to go to Walmart to get a cage and a heat lamp for my new snake. We named her "Sanora". I was standing in line at the customer service desk and who walks by? Uh huh....
I think nothing of it and go on with my shopping. I go back to get my cage and procede to the check out. I THEN walk out to my car and they are both walking right towards me....what the hell!?!? I don't know if she saw me or not but the point is, that because of her I was made to feel like I couldn't be there. I used to work there for God's sakes and because she decided to go on some lying power trip I was uncomfortable being at the store I shop at atleast 2 times a week. Oh well, after next Thursday everything will hopefully be taken care of. That's the point I tried to make over a month ago when I said I didn't want it to be weird if we ran into eachother. What could of been a "hi, how are you good to see you" turned in to a terrible feeling in the pit of my stomach and the feeling you get when you loose your purse or something. Nausea.
Anyway it's bullshit that one person can make you feel that way. Instead of going on with my life she wants to hang on for another year with this stupid restraining order THAT SHE LIED TO GET IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!
Whatever, shit happens.'
First of all, it was Saturday morning, not Friday. Andy and I were on our way to the fair, going down I-5, when I remembered I didn't have extra batteries for my camera, and I also wanted to pick up a CD for the ride. Wal-Mart was the closest stop, since we were already a ways down the highway. (For those of you that don't live close, it is in a different city than she lives in.)
I did see her, but not until we walked out. Had I seen her inside the store, I would never have felt safe going into the restroom alone, as I did, nor would I have been laughing and joking with Andy like I was. It seems she still doesn't understand.
I don't want anything to do with her. Even without the restraining order, there wouldn't have been a "hi, how are you" between us. I want nothing further to do with her. On the appeal form for the restraining order, it asks what part of the order she is contesting. Three of the four options have to do with custody issues where children are involved. Obviously, that isn't the case here. The answer she marked?
I am contesting the order against contacting or attempting to contact the petitioner.
So, I ask you, if she hates me so much, and I am 'so obsessed' with her life, why does she still want me in it? *shakes head*
I am waiting for a call back from the attorney. Everything seems to be in order. Now, it is just a wait and see deal.
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