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[13 Jun 2005|06:12pm] |
So, some friends came over this weekend and stayed for a few days. Friends I know would never stab me in the back. How do I know? They've had opportunities, and never once took them. It's nice to have real, adult female friendships, women who don't play games and mindfuck their supposed 'friends'. What an idea, eh?
It cracks me up still how offended a former friend was that we didn't attend her 'prestigious and very expensive, designed to make her friends jealous and she only wanted them to be there to accomplish that wedding when she hadn't bothered to say more than a handful of words to me in the months prior. I mean, had I shown up and let off a molotov cocktail in the ladies toilet (like I wanted to!), I'd have understood .. however, I politely declined and nothing else was said, but for some reason, she was highly displeased by my absence. Very strange, indeed.
Relationships, all forms, take work and if you're not willing to put in the work then don't expect the other person to always be there to pick up the slack. People get tired of that really quickly. Don't blame the orchard when you never learned how to be a farmer.
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