Well, like I said, he's never going to be able to have sex with a girl and be on the bottom because he's going to have 'nam flashbacks of Emilie stabbing his POOR DEFENSELESS NIPPLE... so it's kinda bad for him xD He wouldn't protest (much) if she decided he was adorable in the non-killing way though.

Gray is just cool with everyone. And Ben does so know he exists-- they're roommates xD