for any of you who have had or are actively involved in caring for a parent, could you pretty please go create an account and answer this question? It would help us (me) out a lot.

Thanks so much!

http://www.caring.com/community/groups/caring-central/discussions/what-was-the-uh-oh-moment-when-you-realized-you-needed-to-play-a-more-active-caregiving-role