http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/movies/2015/08/grandma_with_lily_tomlin_reviewed_american_pie_director_paul_weitz_s_new.html

In Grandma’s opening scene, Lily Tomlin’s Elle Reid breaks up with her girlfriend of four months in the cruelest way she can think of: “You’re a footnote,” she tells Olivia (Judy Greer), a minor postscript to the 38-year relationship that ended with the death of Elle’s partner, Vi, or Violet, 18 months earlier. Olivia burbles on about love, but Elle pays her no mind. “Leave your keys on the coffee table,” she tells the younger woman, cold as ice. Then she heads to the shower where she dissolves into tears.