Kiba Inuzuka (biteme) wrote,
@ 2010-10-21 23:22:00

Current mood:	cheerful
Entry tags:	love, moms, shino

IC 16 I told my mom I'm in <3
I called my mom last night told her about my friend.. It's funny cause I never told my mom bout anyone I liked or was dating or just hanging out wit with benefits. My band friends are a different thing - she even beat the bass players ass once for saying 'shit' while we played video games after rehearsal. I mean after a while she was like their mom too..

Anyway. I told my mom about my new love interest. Why does that look so weird 'my love interest?' She seemed ok with it but I dont know.. kinda asked me a lot of questions...

I told her the facts:
Twenty years old
Works with me in fgi
Has own place
Plays guitar
Good looking

Don't see why she needed his number. She kept firing questions at me... like I was hiding something *he was* but then gave up. I mean he dont cook much but most people dont nowadays. Maybe I should have said more personal stuff about him but I wanted to wait until they meet in person. Cause certain things I'm not sure how to say. NOT ALL MOMS TAKE SHIT THE SAME WAY ESPECIALLY TSUME!

Something told me not to call her but I just had an epic week with Shino> I couldn't wait to share it with her.. just felt like the right thing to do.. now I wonder.

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	notyourfantasy 2010-10-22 12:12 pm UTC (link)
	Do you go cry and cuddle in her arms when you have a bad dream too? (Reply to this)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-22 02:30 pm UTC (link)
	No I don't ! What's your problem man? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-22 02:31 pm UTC (link)
	I think that question is better directed at yourself. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-22 02:34 pm UTC (link)
	... What? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-22 02:35 pm UTC (link)
	What is your problem. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-22 02:57 pm UTC (link)
	I ain't got no problems besides you dickheads! What kinda crap is that to say bout my mom?! (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-22 08:17 pm UTC (link)
	Who says I'm talking about your mom? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-23 11:58 am UTC (link)
	... you lost me.. and it dont look like it now but thats how it seemed. Even if I did cuddle with my mom whats wrong with it? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-23 07:10 pm UTC (link)
	I'm asking what's your problem, not your mother's. Your mother is biologically engineered to fuss over you. Generally once someone reaches your age, they gain some independence. And common sense. Though since you're lacking in the second, I suppose it's too much to expect the first. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-23 11:21 pm UTC (link)
	[ok gloves off forget what shino says] I got sense! It's you speaking munchkin language I don't get. Just cause YOU don't talk to your mom bout shit don't mean it's a problem for others! (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-24 12:18 am UTC (link)
	Speaking to my mother is not sensible, nor possible. The situation is very different and doesn't matter. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-24 10:57 pm UTC (link)
	Whats so differnt? Do you love your mom? My moms the queen! This is the best thing thats ever happen to me I want her to know.. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-24 11:02 pm UTC (link)
	My mother is dead. That is the difference. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-24 11:11 pm UTC (link)
	Sorry to hear that it sucks. Who took care of you? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-24 11:13 pm UTC (link)
	You were not the one driving the car. You shouldn't be sorry. I took care of myself. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	biteme 2010-10-24 11:23 pm UTC (link)
	Oh.. how old [aint buying that for a second] How'd you manage? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	notyourfantasy 2010-10-24 11:27 pm UTC (link)
	How old was I? Almost nine. It does not matter. The point is you're being stupid again. (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	private biteme 2010-10-25 01:27 am UTC (link)
	You know.. you always act like a shit whenever we get close to a normal convo man why's that? Its not stupid to think a 9 year old cant care for himself by himself.. you must have had someone looking after you. [serious Kiba not backing down] So who helped you? (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	Re: private notyourfantasy 2010-10-25 01:47 pm UTC (link)
	I was reverting the conversation back to the original point of my comment which was that your mommy's boy post was stupid. [not backing down either >\|] (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

	Re: private biteme 2010-10-25 02:02 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah.. Your an idiot if you think just cause a person gets older there feeling for their parent changes. I meant what I said before my mom means the world to me I share with her. That's how it is. You still can't me why it's wrong to do that. What happen between you and your parents that makes you a cold little bastard? [right back at you ! Kiba wants to know ] (Reply to this)(Parent)(Thread)

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notyourfantasy
2010-10-25 02:52 pm UTC (link)

It is easy to grow attached to family members, however, you are biologically driven to move away from them. Perhaps your issue is that you make more enemies then friends with your over-enthusiasm and overreactions to things. Did you stop to think that perhaps your current love interest didn't want that displayed on the internet for the world to read? I doubt it. Because you are selfish and not very considerate.

What my relationship with my parents was is none of your concern.

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biteme
2010-10-25 03:52 pm UTC (link)

WHO SAYS WE ARE DRIVEN TO MOVE AWAY!? that's bull! [why you have to go there. Pack mentality lol] we are instinctually and depending on genetics reared to procreate, expand, and protect our offspring. Nothing in our make up develops us to leave the comfort of home. People can leave for several reasons but the main one is their parents raise them think that way.

It's a proven fact that larger family units that consist of several generations -grandparents and parents - fair better than smaller ones.. It's also why the family unit in third world countries is much more stable than here in America. A child can learn more from life from his grandparents than his parents and that child learns how to care for and respect the older generation. In turn when he is an adult he works to protect the lifestyle of the aging population.

Parents in industrialized countries think they do their children a service by pushing them out the home without expecting their children to bring what he's learned back to his parents.. It's wrong and THAT makes people selfish.. Concerned with their own needs while their aging parents are left to fend for themselves or shoved into nursing homes until they die.. It's wrong.

Well my relationship with Shino is not up for your criticism.. We are happy that's all you need to know. Your childhood must have been fucked up.. Look I'm not trying to start shit with you.. I wanna know what happen.. Maybe we can get along a little better..

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notyourfantasy
2010-10-25 05:19 pm UTC (link)

I'm somewhat impressed by the vocabulary you've alloted. I register your oppinions on family upbringing, but I do not agree with them.

If it will satisfy your curiosity, I will tell you that my parents were wonderful people and I loved them more then anything up until they were both killed. I was forced to live with my grandmother who shared a similar but more extreme view of family as you do. I did not require a replacement for my parents as she and the therapists seem to think I did. I ran away when I was 14 and have been successfully on my own since. That is all you will receive.

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biteme
2010-10-25 05:52 pm UTC (link)

Should I say thanks? Im not stupid man. You had it rough with your grandMother? What she expect her grandchild to stay home and take care of the family business? How she doing now since you left? Who else will care for her?

It sucks and all things went south for you but that don't change whats right when it comes to parents especially when we are old enough to take on some of the burden.

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	Re: private notyourfantasy 2010-10-25 08:14 pm UTC (link)
	I don't know, I haven't bothered to find out whether or not she's dead yet since I left. I would hope so, but she will no doubt live forever just to spite me. (Reply to this)(Parent)

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