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i'm not getting them blurred, honest.

i know that it's just a game and i don't care that people don't like her. not everyone is going to like her. what i don't like is that someone had issue with her, and instead of her taking their advice ... because it was in a secret she got her back up. if the person had come to her, she would've toned down. but because they went the secret route, she got her back up and now it's like her filter is totally gone. and anytime someone says something about what she's doing, it's like she bends in the opposite direction to prove that the secrets don't bother her and she doesn't care what people think ... when she does. she cares a lot. and she hates that about herself.

so i guess this whole vent started mostly because i feel bad that she's gone to that place, because I don't like that she's there and I feel bad that others don't like it either. I have to put that filter on her and get her to the place where it's okay for her to be affected by what other's say and do. if someone's secret bothers her, it's okay. she's human. she doesn't have to overcompensate for that.