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spiprimeunited ([info]spiprimeunited) wrote,
@ 2008-05-22 18:54:00


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Current mood: aggravated

38 weeks & 2 days Another Chapter
Oh my aunt nancy the bitch

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Just a recap for you that have been reading:

Her First Email:
"as adults we don't ask for presents from people anymore. they sent things or cards cause they want to not because you ask everyyear. sorry aunt nancy"

My reply:

"Hello,

I don't really expect anything from you guys. I still do get asked for gift lists from members of the family So that's why I do it, the first email's subject was "If you're interested" There was no force there. The second one was a joke, clearly and respectfully you did not find it funny. That's okay but the rudeness from you was not needed"

Her Second Email:

"there was no rudeness at all if thats the way you took it sorry.you're getting too much like your father thinking everyone is being rude, and not thinking how much people do care"

My Reply:

"Hello,

 Let me explain to you how I see your emails. When I moved from your house you told me that if I ever needed you just ask. I have needed you a couple of times in the past years and you said you couldn't or you refused too. I respected that your it entitled to your own life and your own choices. But, it did hurt.

I haven't seen you since Christmas 2006 I haven't spoked to you since August 2007. Nine months ago. When I asked you if I could move in you with. You said "No" and  I respected that ,it's your life, but it did hurt given what you said to my when I was fourteen.

Then I get your last email, due to the facts that emails can't give you the tone in someones voice or the expression on their face. I took it as  if you thought I was immature and that you did not care for me.

Granted the communication does go both ways and I haven't made much of an effort to contact you. But, I also haven't said something to you that could be misunderstood as an insult out of the blue. To my knowledge I haven't done anything to you that could hurt you or insult in the past. I have defended you given what you did for me when I was younger.

You meant so much to me, helping me get away from my Father and showing me that how to put what I felt into words. Therefore causing me to make my own well informed choices, and it the long term giving me a better quality of life.

So I hope you understand at the very least where I was coming from with my last email.. I apologize if me saying that you where being rude hurt you. But, comparing me to my Father out from one incident of my thinking you were being rude was extremely hurtful and uncalled for. More so because we don't talk to each other on a regular basis, so we do not know who each other are anymore. "

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My father is a disgrace to the whole fucking human race. Along with the murders, rapists, religious fanatics, bombers, serial killers, there's my father. I am not my Father, that bitch went to far! But I'm am being the bigger person here, and I  will show her so...though that is being petty itself....I'll just try my best, but I'm not the one throwing random insults.




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