the 2nd date girl
A friend of mine is dating 'the second date girl'. If you're unfamiliar with this concept, allow me to explain.
The second date girl is the girl that went home with you (or to any parked car, etc) on the first date, teased the shit out of you, and then didn't put out, because she didn't want to sleep with you on the first date, (even though she did everything but ..) Then, on the second date (which is often the very next day,) she'll gladly give it up, because she's evaded the 'girl that sleeps with a guy on the first date' reputation, even if only by a small margin of hours.
It's semantics, really. It's amazing the amount of people who operate this way, in such a literal sense of everything that clarification is key in every conversation, nothing can be assumed. I don't trust people like that. There is a point where people stretch the truth right beyond the fine line between honesty and deceit.
In the four hours we spent hanging out with friends the other night, she called him seven times (!) and when he didn't answer, she came right on over to his house. Can we say obsess much? She spends one night with him, and she's already started to plan out their week together. It was strange & disturbing. I told him, she's going to be hard to get rid of when the time comes. She actually asked him to remove his condom when they had sex ... unless she's trying to trap him into getting her knocked up, I don't know why she'd want him to do that. I also mentioned that if she asked him to do that after only knowing him for 24 hours, how many other guys has she had unprotected sex with?? He didn't, of course, but who asks a guy to do that in this day and age??
I'm worried for my friend, but he's a big boy who can take care of himself. The problem is, he's also seeing another girl, not exclusively, but she's pretty sensitive and would probably have an issue if the second date girl stopped by uninvited. I told him I'd come and referee if a catfight broke out *LoL*.
*Sigh* boys are always getting themselves into trouble.
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